I have decided to homeschool. What next?

Bismillah,

“I have decided to homeschool. What next? Where shall I start?”

I told you the other day, I can answer this question in one word now. Years ago, I used to run Islamic Parenting classes back in Bradford. I remember once after I finished my talk, a young lady asked me ‘If you had to advise one thing to a young mother, what would it be? What is one piece of advice I would give? I asked myself and struggled to find the right answer. Fast forward a few more years, now that I have been a mother six times and homeschooling for nearly a decade, I know the answer. I know the secret. I know the formula that helps mothers like me to keep their sanity.  Not only keep their sanity but it helps them to enrich themselves so they can help their children better. And the answer is this: SELF-LOVE.

Yes, you read that right. Self-love is exactly where you want to start to embark on this long, tiring and yet rewarding journey of motherhood, especially the kind of motherhood that takes 100% responsibility for her children’s learning and education. Now, let me explain what I mean.

Whether we like it or not, whether we admit it or not, 70% of who we are as an adult was shaped in our childhood years. We have accumulated a bank of experiences in our subconscious mind that shaped our attitudes as an adult. And we recycle these experiences to navigate us through our relationships in life. When we are dealing with emotional meltdowns, tantrums and rebellious behaviour, we’re recycling our parents’ (or other adults’) reactions or responses we have banked in our subconscious mind as a child.

Whilst I am eternally grateful for my parents raising me the way they did, I also acknowledge that for many of us and all too often our parents didn’t plant the seeds of self-love within us. We have to understand that. We have to understand that our parents did what they could within their means, using the resources available to them at hand. We have to understand that they too had their own limitations and unresolved issues they were going through at times. We have to understand that and accept the Divine Decree for being content with your past whilst acknowledging the work you have to do ahead is the first step towards understanding your SELF-WORTH.

Ultimately, it is Allah who chose to bring me into this world through my parents. I am grateful to be born and I’m grateful for all my past experiences for they shaped me into who I am today. So, whilst I am grateful for my parents and childhood experiences, I also acknowledge that I had to undo somethings that I picked up as a child. I am talking about things like not recognizing my own value, doubting myself, shaming myself, accumulating feelings of guilt and putting my own needs last. And we- as mothers- are especially good at this- putting our needs after everyone else’s.

You see, when you become a mother, it’s so easy to lose yourself into motherhood. Your days start revolving around the needs of your children. Your interests start revolving around the interests of your children. You have to be available 24/7. Feeding, changing nappies, washing poo off bottoms, cooking and cleaning around the clock, and the list is never-ending. Things that were not even considered things become BIG THINGS. I am talking about being able to go to the bathroom as and when you please and having a moment of peace in there. At times, it seems like you have no life of your own. Add on top of that the responsibility of educating your children at home, the burden is real. As such, it’s so easy to lose yourself into motherhood and at some point have a nervous breakdown. You see, when we burn out, we are very good at masking our pain to the outside world. When we are on the verge of a nervous breakdown, we still keep up the pretence with the outside world. But the real pain hurts us and it hurts those closest to us. We don’t break down at work, in front of our boss or a neighbour’s party. We break down behind the closed doors hurting those who are closest to us. So, my dear sister, the only way to handle the challenges laying ahead of your journey is by instilling SELF-LOVE within yourself so you can avoid burn out or at least handle it the right way.

We have often heard the term ‘You can’t give from an empty cup’. Boy, how true is this when it comes to motherhood, parenting, and homeschooling. If our own emotional tank is empty- how can we spread joy and happiness around our household?

So, what exactly does self-love mean? It means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. It means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. It means saying NO without hesitation to people and things in your life that don’t serve the purpose of moving you upwards and onwards. It means allowing yourself to make mistakes instead of accumulating a sense of guilt. It means giving up harshly judging or punishing yourself for every mistake you make. It means being gentle and accepting of yourself. It’s only then when you accept your raw, authentic and vulnerable self, you start the journey of growth.

Now, for some people, this may sound selfish and strange. No, self-love isn’t about being self-absorbed and narcissistic. It’s about getting in touch with your own self, your own well-being, your own happiness, your own goals, and dreams. It’s about not losing yourself into motherhood. It’s about having a moment of quiet to reflect and pushing through your own limiting thoughts and beliefs. Because it’s only then we can live a life that truly helps us to grow as a person so we can help our little ones to grow too.

So you have decided to homeschool. And you are asking me what to do next. My answer is – change your mindset. Increase your sense of SELF. Recognize your own value in the world for you are very special. There is no other person in this entire world who looks or thinks exactly like you. None can serve your family and children better than YOU. You are in their life and they are in your life for a PURPOSE. Allah chose YOU for them, and them for YOU. Stop being harsh with yourself. As we recycle our childhood experiences, at times we find ourselves dealing with situations in a not very desirable way. We find ourselves shouting, screaming, yelling and taking out our anger or frustration in a way that we later end up regretting. It’s ok, you are on a journey. Everyone makes mistakes and this is how we learn. Accumulating a sense of guilt is counterproductive. The guilt keeps you stuck in the same situation whereas being gentle with yourself enables you to move forward. Forgive yourself and maintain your own hobbies, interests and goals.

So my dear sisters, regardless of whether you homeschool or not, here is my one piece of advice to all mothers- LOVE YOURSELF and love yourself more for it is only then we can manage the stress of motherhood and parenting and LOVE our children unconditionally.

Stay tuned for more practical tips on how to better self-care so you can continue to discover new ways to grow. self love

Raising Sahabas Weekend School in Jeddah

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Bismillah,

So after two years break, I have decided to run the weekend programme again. This time in Jedda inshaAllah. Alhamdulillah, by Allah’s permission, we have had great success with this programme in Riyadh and to this day I miss the children and families I had worked with back in 2015-2017. Knowing that children made real progress gave me the greatest joy and we became lifelong friends with many happy parents who were satisfied with the results the programme delivered. So what is this programme all about?

It is 10 weeks long comprehensive and intensive course covering 3 core subjects: Mathematics, English and Science following the UK national curriculum. Each week we will cover a specific topic in each subject, children will have projects and tasks to work on using hands-on materials and resources. There will be pair-work, team-work and group discussions. Children will also be delivering presentations, as well as getting involved in a team and individual competitions. As someone who comes from a professional teaching background, I firmly believe that a child thrives to learn when he/she is inspired and motivated to learn. And at Raising Sahabas, that is exactly what I try to do- ignite the joy of learning within each child, spark their imagination so they are self-motivated to educate themselves.

So,

  • Are you based in Jeddah and looking for quality academic tuition at a more affordable price?
  • Are you a mother who is looking for guidance and direction in your homeschool routine?
  • Do you want your child to benefit from small group learning using innovative teaching methods such as problem-solving, reasoning and logical thinking?
  • Do you want your child to learn through investigative teamwork and research?

If so, you can register your child at Raising Sahabas weekend programme starting on October 4, 2019.

Open for:

  • 9, 10, 11-year-old GIRLS on Fridays 10am-2pm (Year 5/6 curriculum)
  • 7, 8, 9-year-old BOYS on Saturdays 1-3pm (Year 2/3 curriculum)

COST: 200 SAR weekly

If you are still not convinced, head to Raising Sahabas Facebook page to read reviews and testimonials by other parents whose children benefitted from this programme in the past. Register now by emailing your child’s full name and DOB at raising4sahabas@gmail.com or Whatsapp: 00966 502736592.

FAQ:

  • Will there be tests during this programme? – No tests throughout the programme, regular in-class assessment and feedback. However, there will be SATS test at the end of 10 weeks.
  • Will there be homework? – Yes, children will have homework to complete during the week- a project/task/presentation/speech/completing the story etc. Homework will be checked weekly and individual feedback will be delivered to each child.
  • Is there a sibling discount? – Yes, if you have 2 or more children attending. Also if you really want to send your child but can’t afford due to a specific situation currently, pm me so we can discuss the special discount rate.
  • We don’t speak English at home. Can I still enrol my child? – No, this programme is designed for English speaking children only. This isn’t an ESL class and as such ESL children may not benefit from this course (unless they go to international school and speak English near-native level even though English isn’t your spoken language at home).
  • Who will be teaching? What qualifications do you hold?– I will be teaching all classes myself. I am a UK qualified teacher with BA in English, MA in English Language Teaching and have taught at schools and universities both in the UK and abroad, alhamdulillah. As part of my training, I have done many teacher training courses. However, my greatest asset is my experience as a homeschooling mother of 6 children for 8+ years alhamdulillah.

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Last Drop Film Launch

Bismillah,

One of the fine educational places to take your children in Riyadh is Mishkat Interactive Science Centre.

It’s located in Alaqarya Plaza on Olaya Street. The centre is mainly dedicated to raise awareness about renewable energy and how to recycle energy. The children will learn where energy comes from and how it’s used in life through hands on activities. The displays are child friendly and interactive. 

Unfortunately the centre isn’t open to public. It only opens few times a year to deliver science workshops and showcase some science projects going on in the kingdom. 

We had a group visit there last year with Riyadh Homeschool Group where children attended some workshops and enjoyed their time playing with different machines inside. (You can call the number at bottom if you want to organise your own group visit)

Here’s their website http://www.mishkat.org.sa 

This coming Saturday 25th February, they will be showing a film called The Last Drop as well as delivering a number of science workshops.(you can find more information below)

I would highly recommended it to all parents with children between the ages of 4-12. Your children will love the activities and facilities are very accommodating – salah zone, wheelchair access, clean toilets, café with hot beverages and snacks, picnic area and reading corner etc. 

Children are usually grouped according to their ages and will be in different rooms to attend workshops. Parents can’t accompany children to the workshop area but can watch through the large glass doors what their children are doing. There’s a special picnic area for families downstairs if you want to bring your own food. You can also buy hot and cold drinks and snacks in their cafe. Their gift shop also sells various educational toys and games for the little ones to take home. 

So, below is the information about the event this coming Saturday. They are quite strict about tickets and you have to book in advance to attend. They don’t allow entrance at the door without prior booking. 

THE LAUNCH OF OUR EXCLUSIVE FILM LAST DROP

What if you got lost in the desert without a drop of water?
Mishkat Interactive Center will make you live a journey between the past and the present through our new exclusive film
The Last Drop

About the Film

The film presents the topic of Water in an elaboration of its importance in our daily lives, and the challenges that Saudi Arabia is facing to provide desalinated water and its overall relation to energy.  Furthermore, emphasizing the role of science and modern technology in addressing water scarcity and how to engage the future generations in encountering such obstacles!

The film is designed by Mishkat Interactive Center team to explore more about the journey of water desalination together!
WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO ?
Discover an adventure about our Past & Present
Exclusively in Mishkat
We celebrate the film premier with a special package of workshops and activities for you & your family to enjoy..
WHEN?
Saturday  25th of February 2017
From 2:00pm – 10:00pm
TICKET
Book your free Tickets NOW!
http://lammt.com/Mishkat/LDFL?lang=en
HOW DO WE GET TO THE CELEBRATION SITE?

Address: Alaqarya Plaza, Ground Floor: Gate A
7235 Olaya, Olaya ST. 12244-2392 Riyadh
Kingdom Of Saudi Arabia
For more information you can call Visitor Services.

E-MAIL: Info@Mishkat.org.sa

TEL: +966-11-8086060;  4099-4100

https://en.mishkat.org.sa/the-last-drop 
I hope your children will enjoy the event. If you are busy this weekend, it’s still worth visiting the place in the future for a good indoor family day out. 

Qur’an schools in Riyadh 

Assalamu alaykum, 

Over the past months I have received numerous messages regarding schools and daars in Saudi Arabia, what’s the difference between them and where best to send a child to memorise Qur’an. In this post I will try to answer those questions and provide information about Tahfeed schools or Daars. 

Firstly, most private Arabic schools that follow the Saudi curriculum already have Tahfeed programme. The parents can choose the option of enrolling their child in Tahfeed programme where child will be taken out of other subjects and spend more time to memorise the Qur’an. Children will still get to do Maths, Science etc but their time at school will be more dedicated to hifdh and will be missing out on some of the topics/activities in other subjects. It’s important to note that not all Arabic schools have this option. Schools like Dar Al Arqam, Ar Rowad Arabic, Al Forsan Arabic, Al Faris provide this facility on campus whereas Ahad Arabic where my children attended last year didn’t have intensive Tahfeed programme. Hence they were going to a local Tahfeed school in the afternoons. 

Secondly, there are Tahfeed schools in almost all areas of Riyadh (or Saudi Arabia). They are called Daar. What I noticed is that they are very strong on Tajweed and focus a lot on memorising with the correct pronunciation. Aside from hifdh, they will have classes on Aqeeda, tafseer and hadith but they primarily focus on Hifdh. 
While almost all Daars follow more or less the same syllabus, some are run differently than others. Most Daars run from Asr to Magreb in the afternoons  (approximately 3-6pm with slight variation as salah times change). However, some big Daars also have morning classes between 8-11am. 

My children attended Daar Al Imaan last year on Imam Saud Road. They were very happy so we continue attending classes there this year. They only do Tajweed and Tahfeed, no Arabic language. They pick up some language as Arabic is the language of instruction, but it’s not taught at academic level  (no reading or writing in Arabic) 

Amongst the English speaking expats, there are a couple of daars particularly popular because of their approach to cater for non native Arab learners- Dar Dhikr and Dar Raed. 

Daar Dhikr has been established for a very long time. Most British families I have come to know in Riyadh who have been living here for 10+ years vouch for this place. It is welcoming and for a long time was the only place that taught Arabic for non Arabs alongside hifdh. They have developed their own materials and system of teaching Arabic as a foreign language and still the most sought after place for learning Arabic language. They have morning 8-11am and afternoon 3-6pm classes. It is for women and girls, no boys over 6 can enrol  (the same with most other daars)

The only problem with the place is that it is too far from us. Most expat families I know of live in and around Granada, Qurtoba, Izdihar, Ishbiliya areas  (exits 7,8,9). And the place doesn’t provide transport this far out unless there’s a minimum of 6 people to collect from the same area. Sharing a ride is a popular choice but can be hard sometimes for various reasons like timings, reliability of drivers etc. Below is the location for Dar Ad-dhikr for Quran learning – دار الذكر لتعليم علوم القرآن للجاليات

2563 Qays Ibn Al Mulawwah, As Sulimaniyah, Riyadh 12621

https://goo.gl/maps/wf2F5uiF1Q92 

Next, Dar Raed is relatively closer but they don’t specifically provide language lessons like Daar Dhikr. They are run like other daars in that while they are very strong on Tajweed and emphasise on memorising with the correct pronunciation, they don’t have as much experience in teaching Arabic as a foreign language. 
Below is the information I received regarding their morning and afternoon classes for both native and non natives along with the location at the bottom. 

 بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته


With Allah’s assistance and support, studies at Daar Ar-Raa’id have resumed. 

May Allah maintain its adherence to His Book and Sunnah of His Prophet  (may Allah bless and grant him peace ) and may He protect it against the trials and tribulations that lead to the deviation from the right path. Aameen.


Registration will be taking place this week starting Sunday 8/5 AH – 5/2/2017 

Please hurry by immediately registering your name and details and of anyone who you know that would also like to join.


Classes will begin with the help of Allah next Sunday  15/5 AH – 12/2/2017 


Khalid Ibn Ma’daan, may Allah have mercy  on him, the noted Taabi’ee scholar from Syria, said “When a door leading to good is opened up for one of you, then you should hasten to it because you do not know when it will be shut. “

(Abu Nu’ayn Al-Ashfahaanee, Hilyat-ul-Awliyyaa, 5/211 )

In the name of Allah the Most Merciful the Mercy Giver

 

DAR AR-RAA’ID 

center for women (for the memorization of the Quraan)

 

We are pleased to announce the program and registration for the year 2016-2017( 1437H – 1438H)

 

🗯 *The morning program consists of the following*:

 

📌*Quraan memorization classes for adults*:  

🔻• Level one: from sura Adhaariyaat to sura Annaas 

〰– tajweed for beginners (pronunciation and characteristics of the letters). 

🔻• Level two: from sura Yaaseen to sura Qaaf

〰 – the rulings of noon saakina and mudood. 

🔻• Level three: from sura Al-muminoon to sura Assajdah 

〰– rulings of the pronunciation and characteristics of the letters. 

🔻• Level four: from sura Al-hijir to sura Al-hajj 

〰– the rulings of waqf wal ibtidaa. 

🔻• Level five: intensive memorization for those who have completed the Quran.

 

📌*Memorization of Islaamic texts*: 

🔻• Level one:  

〰-Usool athalaatha by sheikh Muhammad bin Abdul-wahaab  

〰-Shuroot assalaah by sheikh Muhammad bin Abdul-wahaab 

〰-A set amount of chapters from Kitaab attawheed by sheikh Muhammad bin Abdul-wahaab 

 

🔻• Level two: 

〰-Al-aqeeda al-waasitiya by ibn taimeeyah 

〰-Set number of chapters from Kitaab attawheed by sheikh Muhammad bin Abdul-wahaab

 

📌*Non Arabic speakers section*: 

🔻• Level one: 

〰memorization of juzz Tabaarak and revision of juzz Amma. 

🔻• Level two: 

〰memorization of juzz Mujaadala and revision of juzz Tabaarak and Amma. 

〰• Attajweed: for beginners (pronunciation and characteristics of the letters). 

〰• *Arabic language classes* for non Arabic speakers.


📍(this includes programs and activities in Islaamic knowledge for all the above levels)

 

📌*Kindergarten Section*

 (🔻Beginners,🔻Intensive 🔻and  Advanced): 

〰• Memorization of some surahs of the Quran.  

〰• Islaamic studies. 

〰• Letters and numbers in Arabic and English.

〰• Reading and writing in Arabic and English.   

          

📍 (plus fun and educational activities)

 

 

🗯*The afternoon program consists of the following*:

 

 📌*Quran memorization classes*: 

🔺• for mothers who are able to read.  

🔺• for mothers who are unable to read. 

🔺• for those who have completed memorization of the Quraan. 

🔺• for beginners. 

🔺• for the upper grades from primary level. 

🔺• for the lower grades from primary level. 

  

📌*Kindergarten Section*

 (🔻Beginners 🔻and advanced): 

〰• Memorization of some surahs of the Quraan.  

〰• Islaamic studies. 

〰• Letters and numbers. 

〰• Reading and writing.

 

📍(plus fun and educational activities) 

 

🗯*Registration and timings for the morning and afternoon sessions are as follows*:

  

📌*Registration started online*

 

🔺• Registration for the individual classes:


https://goo.gl/forms/vUk4zMELB8VG0qvF3



 

🔺• Registration for kindergarten:

 

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfoTnv9YnFtNbXEyMKsA0_KovBmJIsx1FvapPZnCiZuj-zYGw/viewform?c=0&w=1&fbzx=-8680676602864968807


 

📍The new term will begin  on Sunday 18th  September , 2016  ( 17/12/1437H) 

🔺The morning session is 5 days from Sunday to Thursday

 from 8am to 11am  

🔺The afternoon session is 4 days from Sunday to Wednesday

 from straight after Asr prayer to the adhaan of Maghrib prayer.

 

📍child care is available. 

📍transportation will be available to all areas on the condition that there are 6 or more students from the same area. 

  

📩 We can be contacted via:

Mobile :0530203134

Twitter :  @dar_elraed

Instagram: @dar_elraed

Facebook : dar alraed



🗺 location:

http://goo.gl/maps/EJTJa

In my personal experience, I have come to realise that regardless of which place we send our children for memorising the book of Allah, that push and motivation should come from home and parents. I know most of us are busy with work or other duties and find it hard to dedicate time and effort for each child. Attending daars certainly help Alhamdulillah. However for the parents of children who attend Daar Dhikr or Daar Raed, the struggle remains – they have to allocate time at home for a child to complete his/her assigned hifdh or other tasks at home. 

May Allah help us all to find the time and energy for the journey of understanding, memorising and living His book. 

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Building circuits and writing descriptions

Bismillah,

The time seems to be flying past. SubhanAllah, weekend comes around so quickly and before you know it is Monday again.

English
We read an extract from the book Ginger Pye by Eleanor Estes. Kids read and answered questions. They also learnt about the use of adjectives in descriptions. Points to remember:

  • Adjectives are words that describe nouns
  • When we read stories adjectives in description help to create an image in our head
  • Adjectives that are synonyms used together to create more effect (Ex. The puppy had a white, soft, fluffy fur.)

Children identified adjectives in descriptions and wrote their own description of something for the class to guess. Year 4/5 group also learnt about making adjectives by adding suffixes to nouns (Ex. danger- dangerous)

Maths

All kids did the following problem solving activities in groups.
Guessing the number. They have numbers 1-100 in front of them. They have to listen to the description of a number and guess what number is. So example: The number is greater than 50. The number is even number. If you add the digits you get 13. The difference between the digits is 3. What is the number? Answer 58.

Odds and Evens. Kids have 4×6 grid with 24 boxes. They have 18 counters. They have to put the counters in the boxes in such a way that there are even number of them in each row and columns. This was really hard as they struggled to understand the problem. And they kept trying to place the stones in different boxes but couldn’t solve it.

Activity with cubes. 4 cubes are used to make a stand for 3 winners at the Olympic Games. If 9 cubes are used to make a stand for 5 winners, how many cubes are needed to make a stand for 7 winners? Answer 16.

Mashallah, these activities are really helpful to develop reasoning and logical thinking. Some children are finding it difficult solve the problems as they are not used to these kind of problems in Maths. They mostly struggle to grasp concepts, to really understand what is the problem. Some elder children understand the problem but don’t have the tools or strategies to solve the problems. I am hoping these will become easier inshaAllah as we practice more in the future.

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After group activities, they did their individual works. Year 3/4 group- practice adding and subtracting with numbers upto 1000. Some kids struggled with subtraction and the rule of “borrowing”. Also, a couple of students need more explaining and practice in place value. Year 4/5 group covered working out the area and perimeter of a rectangle. Again, a couple of students struggled multiplying two digit numbers which they will need more practice.

Science

Following on from Electricity unit, kids learnt about materials used in building circuits such as conductors, insulators and resistors. They practiced building parallel and series circuits using water. They learnt about electrons and how salty water can act as conductor and lets electricity pass. They fixed problems in incomplete circuits.

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Alhamdulillah, most children have completed their homework which is really important. It is difficult to make a progress unless parents reinforce what is taught in class at home and children practice outside classroom. We look forward to week three inshaAllah.

Weekend School

Bismillah,

Alhamdulillah, we have started our Raising Sahabas weekend programme in Riyadh. This year we have Year 3/4 group and Year 4/5 group and studying core subjects Maths, English and Science according to British Curriculum. I will be posting weekly updates here inshaAllah as much as I can.

Week one.

English

  • LO- Reading Comprehension in a story poem. Children read the poem “The Owl and the Pussycat” by Edward Lear and answered questions. We did short dictation for spelling and studied Adjectives. Year 4/5 group studied comparatives and the use of adjectives in a descriptive writing. They had worksheets to complete in pairs and when they finished they did peer-checking (marked each other’s work) Each group had a list of nouns. In pairs, they had to list as many adjectives as they can think of for each noun. We also covered how synonym adjectives used together to create more effect (i.e tiny little puppy)

Maths

  • Problem Solving. I found this really good resource online full of problem-solving activities. Each lesson we start with circle time where they have to solve 2-3 problems in groups. So the problems they had to solve last weekend
    1. Count the number of squares in this shape. Most answered 4 but the answer is 5. Second, move two of the sticks to make 6 number of squares. Only two sticks and two moves allowed.

solution

I gave them out cards numbered 1-9 and they had to be divided into three groups in such a way that the total sum adds up to 15 in each group. MashaAllah, they solved this problem in two different ways.

Third task was to guess the number. It is an odd number between 0-50, has 2 digits, the difference between the numbers 1 and the total sum of 2 digits is 5. MashaAllah, one student guessed the number 23 straight away.
Then we did geometry. Year 3/4 group worked on identifying the line of symmetry in different shapes. Year 4/5 group learning about regular and irregular polygons; measuring angles and finding the missing angle in any given shape.

Science

We learnt about circuits and they enjoyed building circuits. They read through the information, followed the instructions and worked on various projects making parallel and series circuits using a bulb, an alarm, a fan etc.

Alhamdulillah, kids had so much fun building circuits. Looking forward to next week!

New academic year- new beginning 2016-2017.

Bismillah,

Alhamdulillah, the new academic year has been very productive so far. Despite the fact that we have had a new addition to our family- baby Sara!!! We have been blessed with a daughter who is a month old already.
Since I am full time stay at home mom again, all kids are being home-ed (no Arabic school this year). We are trying to catch up with the British curriculum as much as we can. Sumayya is doing Year 4/5 syllabus and Safiyya is doing Year 3/4 material. I have also started teaching Ibrahim this year- he is ever so happy to be doing more structured/formal work with his sisters. He is learning phonics, dolch words and basic addition/subtraction at the moment.

Routine

As I always emphasize, the most important thing in any home-ed family is the routine. Once you establish routine, certain things become habitual and we as mothers don’t have to nag our children to complete their daily tasks.

For example, last year when I was working full time, we didn’t have any home-ed routine. I was trying to fit in little bit of work here and there but nothing on a regular basis. As such I always used to nag Sumayya to do Maths. As most of you know, she has a strong disliking towards Maths and used to have emotional meltdowns. Every little maths worksheet used to take ages to complete. I spent long hours lecturing her on the importance of Maths……it was exhausting.

Alhamdulillah, however much she hates it, we now do Maths daily and I don’t have to ask her to do it. After we came back from England, we made a timetable for the new academic year and stuck to it for 4 weeks. It has just become a habit now. So this is our home-ed routine now.

  1. Wake up and have breakfast.
  2. Immediately after breakfast, they make wudu and read 2 pages of Quran
  3. The girls have to do 2 pages of their Maths books daily. Safiyya is currently doing Countdown Grade 3, Sumayya is doing Countdown Grade 4. Unless they are starting a new topic or stuck on a problem, my help is not needed. I spent most of this time with Ibrahim, doing phonics, reading and writing, addition and subtraction with numbers 0-10.

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4. English.
Ibrahim is learning how to read at the moment. I bought him a few phonics books, set of flashcards and lots of books. He has memorized most of the books but that is fine. He has learnt to spell most CVCs and does copywork for handwriting daily. We do some phonics, reading comprehension where I read outloud the story and he has to answer the questions, and dictation of CVCs for spelling. He is doing really well alhamdulillah. We do very short lessons, 5-10 minutes of each activity and we always stop as soon as I notice he is getting bored or tired of doing the same thing. I never insist to finish anything with him. If he asks to stop in the middle of something, I always agree and leave it to the next day.

Safiyya is currently working through the Year 3/4 syllabus I made for her. We incorporate Writing With Ease Level 3 (complete writing programme incorporating punctuation, spelling, reading comprehension), Full Language Lessons Level 2 (mainly grammar with reading comprehension) and various worksheets from the web.
Sumayya has just started Complete English for Secondary 1. It contains 3 books, study book, workbook, writing and grammar practice book.

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We usually study between 10am-1pm, with breaks at various points. Alhamdulillah, the girls can both study independently and require very little help. I spend very little time teaching them, mostly just supervising to make sure they are on task.

5. Usually between 1-2pm we have lunch, pray dohr and play a little.

6. Hifz revision/Play. Alhamdulillah they are going to Tahfeez from Asr to Magreb daily. So after dohr they have to revise and memorize their given ayahs by a teacher at Tahfeez school.
7. They go to tahfeez 3:30-5:30pm.

8. When they return from Tahfeez school around 6pm, we have a family dinner. After dinner they usually get to watch something for an hour or so.

9. Play time- they play for a couple of hours in the evenings.

10. They go to bed around 10pm daily.

Alhamdulillah, in between tending to one hundred needs of each child, breastfeeding, changing nappies and washing bums, we have so far been able to stick to our new home-ed routine and had a very productive start to the year!!! Alhamdulillah.

Praying for all our home-ed friends for a very productive year full of bonding and connecting. Happy Homeschooling and Happy Teaching my sisters.